Tears over cheating: the business of viral humiliation
A woman cries over her husband's infidelity and the video goes viral. Criticism, a gender double standard and the monetization of drama on social media.
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Tears over cheating: the business of viral humiliation
A Spanish woman cries in a video because her husband cheated on her. The video goes viral. The criticism comes fast: tattoos, piercings, physical appearance. The story is not new: when a woman exposes her pain on social media, the pile-on is automatic. But there is an economic backdrop that often goes unnoticed.
The attention economy rewards drama. The rawer the humiliation, the more clicks. The profiles that upload these videos usually monetize afterwards through advertising, brand deals or accounts on adult content platforms. It is no coincidence that the "crying over infidelity" format has become a recurring subgenre.
The reactions, however, reveal a double standard. When it is the man who has been cheated on, compassion is weaker or nonexistent. People argue that nobody sympathizes with him. The debate over unequal treatment of infidelity victims based on gender also has an economic angle: the ability to turn pain into income.
A Spanish woman cries in a video because her husband cheated on her. The video goes viral. The criticism comes fast: tattoos, piercings, physical appearance. The story is not new: when a woman exposes her pain on social media, the pile-on is automatic. But there is an economic backdrop that often goes unnoticed.
The attention economy rewards drama. The rawer the humiliation, the more clicks. The profiles that upload these videos usually monetize afterwards through advertising, brand deals or accounts on adult content platforms. It is no coincidence that the "crying over infidelity" format has become a recurring subgenre.
The reactions, however, reveal a double standard. When it is the man who has been cheated on, compassion is weaker or nonexistent. People argue that nobody sympathizes with him. The debate over unequal treatment of infidelity victims based on gender also has an economic angle: the ability to turn pain into income.
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