Dissatisfaction with Spanish Partners Surfaces in Economic Forums
A post opens a Pandora's box: "Are Spanish women very bad girlfriends? What do those who have tried other options think?" The question, posed in a subforum of the Spanish Economy section, triggers dozens of replies where personal complaints mix with social diagnosis. It is not just a thread about dating: it is a thermometer of male discontent with the partner market in Spain.
The first response arrives quickly: Spanish girlfriends are allegedly "contaminated by the Feminista radical bicho" and full of "narcissistic 'because-I-deserve-it' attitude." Another participant recalls their experience from the mid-80s: a partner who was "cold and unexpressive," offering no conversation topics. The conversation soon drifts toward a global judgment: "They are not bad girlfriends. Spanish women are just bad," declares one message, rating them negatively in every imaginable facet.
From Personal Case to Collective Verdict
The thread starts with an apparently innocuous question and escalates within hours into a diagnosis of Spanish women. One participant argues that beautiful ones are "the most beautiful women on Planet Earth," while another replies that they have no complaints about their vvife, although admitting that he and his circle are not representative because they belong to "extreme right-wing turbo-mega-error-niche." What they observe among younger men is different: they live "cowardly and marginalized," are "the last shit in their home," many do not sleep in their own bed, and they no longer even decide which car to buy. "Eunuchs. Castrated," summarizes one user.
Accusations of misandry cross the thread from side to side. A female participant responds with sarcasm: "I suppose you are an orphan, whose whore mother abandoned you in the street as a bad mother." The reply is immediate: "See how you are bad and aggressive? You are extremely misandric." The discussion turns into an exchange of reproaches about who attacks whom.
The Origin of Male Lack of Initiative
One of the more developed messages points to the accumulation of rejections as the cause of male passivity. "The countless number of rejections, disrespect, and humiliations received by women (especially Spanish) who are mostly WAY below the level of those men in terms of physical attractiveness, knowledge, intelligence, economic situation, and future potential," argues the post. This argument connects with the thesis that the partner market is distorted.
The response does not wait: "What a mental wank you just pulled off in 2 seconds. Good luck in life." Another participant notes that romantic relationships "are the parents." And a third admits they have only had one girlfriend, their vvife, who is not Spanish, so they cannot offer an opinion.
Body, Proportions, and International Comparisons
The thread shifts toward physiognomy. "Shortness is inappropriate proportions. Child-baby-like, not woman-like. And on top of that, they tend to be narrow-minded and have squat bodies. 'Spaniards' are DEFORMED in proportions," claims one message. In a European context, another places Spanish women only ahead of English and Portuguese women, stating they are "clearly inferior to the rest."
Comparison with other countries also appears in a testimony: "Even a Dominican complained about a Spanish girlfriend he had and who had children with 6 different women." The anecdote is used as proof of a pattern.
The Counterpoint: Not All, and Not Always
Not all of the thread is condemnation. One participant defends that it depends on who you meet: "Thanks to having a girlfriend, I live like God and can afford to be without working. But I know some acquaintances for whom things don't go so well, but because they are stupid, hasty, and go with the first starving person who gives them a bit of attention, instead of having patience and choosing well." Responsibility, they say, also lies with the man who chooses badly.
Another message points to the environment: "The problem with Spanish women is the amount of submissive simp Spaniards and the fathers of girls who raise them poorly." Education and courtship, rather than biology, would be at the root of the problem.
The Closing: Where Analysis Stalls
The thread does not reach an agreement. Some argue the problem is cultural and educational; others, structural and economic; still others, related to partner selection. The only coincidence is that something is not working. And that no one knows exactly what.
Summary of a discussion on Burbuja.info - Foro de economía, actualidad y política., translated from Spanish and reviewed before publication.
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