The economics of divorce: why so many Spanish couples stay married
Financial dependence and the survivor's pension keep thousands of Spanish couples together. It isn't love: it's the budget.
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Divorce in Spain: a luxury many cannot afford
The couple at the next table has been married for thirty years and doesn't say a word to each other. It's not an isolated case. In Spain, divorce never quite takes off, and there are plenty of economic reasons to explain it. The question isn't how much love is left, but how much it costs to leave.
Financial dependence, the glue of marriage
Some argue that divorce happens when it suits the financially stronger party. Others point out that many wives have no income of their own and many husbands can't manage on their own. The result is a stalemate: the one who stays is the one who can't leave.
"It's not those who want to divorce who do, but those who can." The phrase sums up the reality. The survivor's pension acts like a magnet: some couples haven't lived together for decades, yet keep the legal bond while waiting for the benefit.
The cost of separation
The cost of divorce —lawyers, housing, restructuring assets, a change in living standards— becomes a barrier to entry. For many, the most profitable reconciliation is the one that never happens. As long as economic conditions don't change, the portrait of Spanish marriage will remain full of couples living together in silence. Not out of love, but out of budget.
The couple at the next table has been married for thirty years and doesn't say a word to each other. It's not an isolated case. In Spain, divorce never quite takes off, and there are plenty of economic reasons to explain it. The question isn't how much love is left, but how much it costs to leave.
Financial dependence, the glue of marriage
Some argue that divorce happens when it suits the financially stronger party. Others point out that many wives have no income of their own and many husbands can't manage on their own. The result is a stalemate: the one who stays is the one who can't leave.
"It's not those who want to divorce who do, but those who can." The phrase sums up the reality. The survivor's pension acts like a magnet: some couples haven't lived together for decades, yet keep the legal bond while waiting for the benefit.
The cost of separation
The cost of divorce —lawyers, housing, restructuring assets, a change in living standards— becomes a barrier to entry. For many, the most profitable reconciliation is the one that never happens. As long as economic conditions don't change, the portrait of Spanish marriage will remain full of couples living together in silence. Not out of love, but out of budget.
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