The nostalgia of a teenage love that never was

A 40-year-old man idealizes the teenage love he never had. Others reply that money can buy youthful company. Two clashing views on love and age.

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The lament of the 40-year-old: the teenage love he never had

A 40-year-old man sits on a park bench watching a teenage couple kiss. They are not his children. It is the image of what he never had. The scene stirs an inner rage he describes as atrocious, and he wonders why life has denied him that experience: having a young girl kiss and caress him in a bucolic setting of ducks and nature. His frustration reaches the depths of despair, and he says it is time to die.

Against this idealization of a lost past, a pragmatic current emerges claiming that everything has a price. Those who defend this view cite real examples: a 55-year-old man with a Panerai watch and a bejeweled young woman aged 18 to 22 on a terrace. The conclusion is that, with enough money, youthful company can be bought. But others reply that a wallet cannot buy the innocence of a mutual, spontaneous teenage kiss, that unique and unrepeatable moment of life that defines youth.

The debate reveals two opposing views on love and age. One, nostalgic, longing for a stage of life that was never lived; the other, mercenary, reducing relationships to an economic exchange. Both agree that lost time never returns, but disagree on whether it can be compensated for. Meanwhile, in the park, the kids keep kissing, oblivious to the existential drama they unleash.

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