Suicide: the danger of normalizing venting
Self-harm is becoming trivialized in digital conversations. A recent case shows the line between venting and an emergency. Learn how to spot it.
English · Original discussion in Spanish · Published
The trivialization of suicide in the age of economic anxiety
How often do you read "I'm thinking about killing myself" in a conversation about consumption and lifestyle? More often than anyone would like. The usual response is silence, dark humor, or a gesture of empathy that comes too late.
In a recent conversation, someone described a medication and alcohol overdose that ended in the ICU, as if it were a trivial detail. The first question was whether they had had dinner. The person replied that they had, with their family. "I've lived my whole life on god mode," they added. The other person replied that an easy life is no reason to die, and that they themselves would consider it if not for the harm it would do to their loved ones.
Venting or emergency: the line that is fading
Self-harm has become a commonplace topic of conversation, even in spaces devoted to responsible consumption. Asking whether someone has had dinner is not an empty gesture: it is an attempt to anchor the person in something tangible. But the line between venting and an emergency is becoming harder and harder to draw.
Family as an anchor
The reaction worth remembering is the one that turns toward family. Not as a solution, but as a genuine protective factor: the emotional bond. When someone says they won't kill themselves so as not to hurt their loved ones, they are expressing an attachment to life. The next time someone confesses suicidal thoughts, ask them how long they have been feeling this way. And truly listen.
How often do you read "I'm thinking about killing myself" in a conversation about consumption and lifestyle? More often than anyone would like. The usual response is silence, dark humor, or a gesture of empathy that comes too late.
In a recent conversation, someone described a medication and alcohol overdose that ended in the ICU, as if it were a trivial detail. The first question was whether they had had dinner. The person replied that they had, with their family. "I've lived my whole life on god mode," they added. The other person replied that an easy life is no reason to die, and that they themselves would consider it if not for the harm it would do to their loved ones.
Venting or emergency: the line that is fading
Self-harm has become a commonplace topic of conversation, even in spaces devoted to responsible consumption. Asking whether someone has had dinner is not an empty gesture: it is an attempt to anchor the person in something tangible. But the line between venting and an emergency is becoming harder and harder to draw.
Family as an anchor
The reaction worth remembering is the one that turns toward family. Not as a solution, but as a genuine protective factor: the emotional bond. When someone says they won't kill themselves so as not to hurt their loved ones, they are expressing an attachment to life. The next time someone confesses suicidal thoughts, ask them how long they have been feeling this way. And truly listen.
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