The demographic crisis deepens: Why are Spaniards avoiding having children?
The debate over Spain's low birth rate has reached a peak, with thousands of citizens expressing their reasons for not bringing new Spaniards into the world. The reasons given range from economic precariousness and job instability to the perception of an unfavorable social and legal system, as well as the pursuit of a quieter, worry-free personal life.
Selfishness, antiestéticar, and distrust: the reasons for the decline
A significant segment of the population attributes their decision not to have children to deep selfishness, understood as prioritizing personal well-being and tranquility over the responsibilities of parenthood. Antiestéticar of an uncertain future, marked by economic instability, a precarious labor market, and an education system that many consider deficient, also weighs heavily. Distrust of laws, especially those related to family and the protection of men, and the perception of a hostile social environment are other recurring factors.
The role of women and couple relationships
The dynamics of couples and the role of women in today's society are also subject to analysis. Some argue that current laws leave men unprotected and that couple relationships have become transactional, where economic interest takes precedence over starting a family. The perception that women, especially after a certain age, have unrealistic expectations or see motherhood as a business is repeated in several comments. On the other hand, female hypergamy and so-called "anti-men laws" are pointed to as causes of "economic" and social "suicide."
An uncertain future and the renunciation of fatherhood
The lack of economic stability, the difficulty of accessing housing, and the general feeling that the country does not offer a promising future for new generations are significant reasons. Many admit they achieved money or stability too late, when the "biological clock" has already passed or the desire to take on that responsibility has waned. Laziness, apathy, and antiestéticar of commitment intertwine with the desire to enjoy a freer life without the burdens of raising children in the current context. The fundamental question seems to be whether, given this panorama, having children is an act of courage or irresponsibility.
The view of those who did have children
Although most voices express reluctance, there are testimonies from those who have had children. They often mention the lack of state support and antiestéticar for their children's future. Some express regret for having brought them into a world they consider "a shitty mess," while others defend the life experience that parenthood entails, despite the difficulties. The figure of 1.15 children per woman in 1995, compared to the current rate, underscores the magnitude of the demographic problem, which worsens if the contribution of the foreign population is excluded.
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